WASHINGTON — When Tom Donilon, President Obama’s national security 
adviser, met with President Xi Jinping in Beijing last week to discuss 
his coming visit to the United States, China’s newly minted leader told 
him he wanted a conversation with Mr. Obama that did not involve 
diplomatic talking points. As if to underscore the message, he ignored 
the notes sitting in front of him.  
When Mr. Xi arrives on Friday for his first visit as president, Mr. 
Obama will make his own symbolic gesture, welcoming him amid the olive 
trees and artificial lakes of a 200-acre California estate. 
In more than six hours of meetings over two days, with ample time for 
dinner and a sunset stroll beneath the San Jacinto Mountains, 
administration officials hope Mr. Obama and Mr. Xi, who met for the 
first time last year in Washington, will really get to know each other, 
while exchanging ideas about how best to manage a complex, sometimes 
combustible relationship between the world’s two biggest economies.     
   
 It is an enormous bet on the power of personal diplomacy, in a setting 
carefully chosen to nurture a high-level friendship.